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Picture this: you're a young adult with a stable job, no debts, and a promising future. Then, your family drops a bombshell on you โ they want you to take out a loan to pay for your brother's wedding! ๐ฒ That's the situation one person found themselves in, and they're wondering if refusing to help out makes them a bad person. Let's dive into the story and see what went down.๐ฟ
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Who's Responsible for the Wedding Debt? ๐ค๐ธ
So, our protagonist finds themselves in a sticky situation. Their family is drowning in debt after a rushed wedding, and now they're being asked to take out a loan to save the day. But after laughing in their family's faces and refusing to help, they're left wondering if they're the bad guy in this story. ๐ With the opportunity to work overseas, it seems like they might be able to escape the drama for a while. But what does the internet think about their decision? Let's dive into the top responses! ๐๐ฅ
Don't let your family guilt you into paying for their debts ๐ฐ. NTA
mdthomas | mdthomas
NTA. Laughing in their faces is the correct response ๐.
mm172 | mm172
NTA. Don't take on debt for someone else's wedding dreams ๐
Mimbley | Mimbley
Laughing in their faces was the perfect response ๐ NTA
aramis604 | aramis604
Don't let family pressure you into financial stupidity ๐ธ. NTA.
smackof_ham | smackof_ham
Teen parents demand loan for wedding, commenter says NTA.
nerdgirl71 | nerdgirl71
Mind your own business. Not the a-hole ๐ โโ๏ธ
dwells2301 | dwells2301
NTA suggests a mantra to avoid family's wedding loan demand ๐
chuckinhoutex | chuckinhoutex
Family debt drama: NTA for not paying brother's wedding loan ๐ซ๐ฐ
Delisk | Delisk
Stand your ground ๐ช. Don't let them guilt trip you.
UniVom | UniVom
MIL wants a wedding and grandbaby, let her pay the loan ๐ฐ
Country-girl-2212 | Country-girl-2212
MIL's partial payment sparks debate on wedding expenses ๐
hi_snow_white | hi_snow_white
Don't sacrifice your financial peace for a young marriage. #NTA
PaopuConMostaza | PaopuConMostaza
Bride/groom's family demanding loan, commenter suggests talking to MIL.
MeowMeow808 | MeowMeow808
Wedding loan drama: NTA advises to distance from family ๐
nothingclever4now | nothingclever4now
Stand your ground! NTA ๐
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Wedding loan demand: commenter says NTA, calls out entitlement ๐
Sk111W | Sk111W
NTA stands up to irresponsible family demands for loan ๐ฐ
Chantalle22 | Chantalle22
Unconventional wedding ideas shared in hilarious comment section ๐
Night-light51 | Night-light51
Wedding loan demand denied, common sense questioned. NTA ๐
Andrew5329 | Andrew5329
Stand your ground! NTA for not paying brother's wedding loan ๐
many_hobbies_gal | many_hobbies_gal
Wedding loan drama: Redditors side with 'NTA' commenter
Nanabug13 | Nanabug13
Cutting off toxic family members? NTA ๐ซ๐
spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey
Don't go into debt for someone else's wedding. ๐
Alucard12203 | Alucard12203
Equal qualifications, unequal treatment. NTA wins the day ๐
Consistent-Annual268 | Consistent-Annual268
Don't be a doormat! NTA for not lending for wedding ๐
jimmap | jimmap
Don't sacrifice your financial future for family weddings ๐ฐ๐
Laines_Ecossaises | Laines_Ecossaises
Standing up to family demands for money ๐ฐ
PedestrianD | PedestrianD
Standing up for oneself and refusing to pay back unjust loans ๐ช
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Don't let their financial ineptness ruin your future. NTA ๐
northstarette | northstarette
Don't let family pressure you into financial trouble. ๐ธ
Huge-Ad6348 | Huge-Ad6348
Stand your ground ๐ช. Giving in will only lead to more demands.
AngryWriterGrr | AngryWriterGrr
Protect your credit! Don't loan money for a wedding ๐ฐ๐
murphy2345678 | murphy2345678
Don't let your family guilt you into paying for their choices ๐ธ
The_Krudler | The_Krudler
Protect yourself: ๐ก๏ธ Freeze your credit to avoid fraud
pistacio814sb | pistacio814sb
Laughing it off: Why this commenter says NTA
TeaBeginning5565 | TeaBeginning5565
NTA. Taking loans for tacky weddings is dumb ๐
acciologic | acciologic
Don't let guilt manipulate you into paying for someone else's wedding ๐ฐ
Fearless0394 | Fearless0394
Surrounded by a**holes? NTA for not giving loan.
Adorable_Accident440 | Adorable_Accident440
Commenter refuses to bail out entitled siblings. ๐
Jovon35 | Jovon35
Brother's wedding out of budget, not OP's problem. NTA.
old_maid_ | old_maid_
Setting boundaries is tough but necessary. Don't be an ATM ๐ฐ.
krankykitty | krankykitty
Escape from toxic family demands ๐ธ๐โโ๏ธ
theambears | theambears
Family drama: commenter calls out irresponsible family members. NTA.
FartFace319 | FartFace319
Escape the wedding loan trap. NTA, get out now!
KnuckleMonkey_782 | KnuckleMonkey_782
Sibling refuses loan to brother for house due to past history
Lildiar | Lildiar
Supportive comment with no replies ๐
LokiChevelle | LokiChevelle
Commenter is not the a**hole, but why? ๐ค
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Protect yourself from identity theft. NTA for doing so.
ThePearlEarring | ThePearlEarring
Laughing in the face of entitled family demands. NTA ๐
slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad
Set boundaries and get it in writing before lending money ๐ฐ
Personal_Apartment49 | Personal_Apartment49
Stand your ground! ๐ โโ๏ธ Don't let them guilt you into debt.
yachtiewannabe | yachtiewannabe
Don't give in to family pressure. Stand your ground! ๐ช
claireclairey | claireclairey
Sibling refuses to pay for brother's wedding. NTA wins.
Danube_Kitty | Danube_Kitty
Don't let family pressure you into financial trouble. ๐
Kichan25 | Kichan25
Take control of your finances and move out. NTA ๐
Additional_Breath_89 | Additional_Breath_89
Don't go into debt for your brother's wedding. NTA ๐
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Demanding money for a wedding? Not cool ๐
visionskate1 | visionskate1
Encouraging response to NTA comment about education choices ๐ช
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Wedding expenses should not be a burden on family. NTA ๐
Ryan233tiger | Ryan233tiger
Weddings are expensive, but should parents go into debt? NTA
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Don't cave in! Stand your ground. You're not the a**hole.
tweedtybird67 | tweedtybird67
Don't let them guilt you into financial ruin. Stand your ground. ๐ช
takethisdayofmine | takethisdayofmine
Protect yourself from identity theft when dealing with family loans ๐ณ
Emergency_Web_8722 | Emergency_Web_8722
MIL wants lavish wedding, but who should foot the bill? ๐ค
CedarGrove19 | CedarGrove19
Wedding loan demand met with strong NTA response. ๐
probably_soulless | probably_soulless
Stay away from the mess and don't get involved ๐
sammyishy | sammyishy
Family's entitled demand for loan gets called out. ๐ฒ
sparky1up | sparky1up
Cutting ties with entitled family over wedding loan request. ๐
mzpljc | mzpljc