- Family
Diply | Diply
What happens when the dream of owning your own home collides with the reality of parental obligation? One woman found herself at the crossroads of love and financial responsibility, as her partner's parents asked them to take over their mortgage. This tale of love, dreams, and mortgages is a rollercoaster of emotions. Let's delve into the story and see how it unfolded. ๐ข๐
A Love Story Begins ๐ฅฐ
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
Trending
Couple's Late-Night Rendezvous Interrupted by Unwanted Guest ๐ฑ
Father Stands Up for Wife After Son's Disrespectful Wedding Invite ๐คฏ๐
Step-Dad Locks Teen in Room for 16 Hours, Dad Intervenes ๐ฑ
Teenager Exposes Bio Mom's Secret: No Room for Her at Family Party ๐ฑ
Single Mom's Stand Against New Dad in Friend Group ๐ฑ: Is She Wrong?
Christmas Chaos: Mother-in-Law's Birthday Overshadows the Holiday ๐ฒ๐
The Dream of Homeownership ๐ก
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
Must Read
Man's Remarkable Weight Loss Sparks Bitter Clash with Old Friend ๐ฑ๐ฅ
Mom's Car Key Revenge Backfires, Leaving Her Stranded ๐ฑ๐
The Perfect Home ๐
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
The Parental Curveball โพ
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
The Dilemma ๐ค
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
Heartbreak ๐
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
The Unwanted Mortgage ๐ฆ
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
The Old House ๐๏ธ
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
Feeling Trapped ๐
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
The Decision ๐ฏ
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
The Breakup ๐
stunning_fix9516 | stunning_fix9516
The Love-Mortgage Rollercoaster: A Recap ๐ข
In this whirlwind of a story, our heroine finds herself torn between her dreams of owning a home with her partner and the unexpected request from his parents to take over their mortgage. Despite her love for her partner, she finds herself unable to accept living in a house that wouldn't feel like their own. The situation escalates, leading to heartbreak and the eventual end of their relationship. A tale of love, dreams, and mortgages, it's a stark reminder of the complexities of life and relationships. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... ๐ฟ
๐ฉ Don't tie the knot! Protect your finances and happiness. ๐
nebunala4328 | nebunala4328
Mortgage clause: Change ownership, pay up! ๐ธ
requiem4meme | requiem4meme
Trust your gut and avoid being buried next to Fluffy.
highexplosive | highexplosive
NTA: You're just renting their home, not buying your own ๐
Algebralovr | Algebralovr
NTA. Don't let them make you pay for their dreams. ๐
ClawedRavenesque | ClawedRavenesque
Smart solution: Have parents rent it out for mortgage + 10% ๐
revibing | revibing
Financial abuse: Are you trapped paying for someone else's house? ๐
txmoonpie1 | txmoonpie1
A blunt response shuts down the conversation. ๐ โโ๏ธ
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Don't pay for their bad financial decision. ๐ธ
artemis1860 | artemis1860
Taking on all the expenses for in-laws? Hard pass! NTA ๐
Free-Promotion-8106 | Free-Promotion-8106
๐ฉ Don't do it! So many red flags! #NTA
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA...but the parents are. Draw a hard line with your partner. ๐
joes_editorialboard | joes_editorialboard
๐ซ NTA: Don't buy them a vacation home, stand your ground!
ta_probably_mostly | ta_probably_mostly
NTA. Selfish in-laws and a house that's not really yours. ๐
HoneyMCMLXXIII | HoneyMCMLXXIII
Zoxgg's mysterious comment leaves everyone intrigued. ๐ค
pashminamina | pashminamina
Don't let love blind you. Protect yourself from financial entanglement.
mxrichar | mxrichar
Stand your ground! ๐ก๏ธ Let them know it's a deal breaker.
rubberman5959 | rubberman5959
Don't do it! ๐ฑ
whitnet12 | whitnet12
Navigating the minefield of living with in-laws ๐ฃ
virtualmaxk | virtualmaxk
Living with his parents? Paying for everything? NO NO NO!
EvulRabbit | EvulRabbit
NTA, your partner's lack of understanding is a dealbreaker ๐
rawsugar87 | rawsugar87
Taking over a mortgage with no ownership? Bad deal! ๐ค
Katy_moxie | Katy_moxie
NTA. Living with in-laws for half the year? No way! ๐
wigglywriggler | wigglywriggler
Stand your ground! ๐ซ Don't let his parents ruin your future!
kdkincaid | kdkincaid
๐ค A couple wants someone else to pay their mortgage? NTA
flowers4u | flowers4u
Beware! Love, mortgages, and broken dreams can be a trap! ๐ฑ
SergiusMagnificus | SergiusMagnificus
Betrayed by family in a similar situation, don't trust anyone! ๐คฏ
ofnovalue | ofnovalue
Protect your investment! Get on the house title with lawyer's help! โ๏ธ
paidinpork | paidinpork
Taking over ownership and occasional visits? Not the a**hole!
techieguyjames | techieguyjames
A bad deal that's hard to believe. Definitely not the a**hole.
zalachenko123 | zalachenko123
Not the a**hole, but what's the dilemma? ๐
TheDoNothings | TheDoNothings
Living with in-laws? ๐ค Maybe rethink that vacation house ๐ก
TheHiddenMessenger | TheHiddenMessenger
Don't be a**hole landlord! Avoid the mortgage trap. ๐ซ๐
heatherleanne | heatherleanne
Don't take over the mortgage! NTA. It's a terrible deal ๐ก
YunaSakura | YunaSakura
Don't pay their mortgage! Save for your own dream home! ๐
fatfarko69 | fatfarko69
Agreement is key in a partnership. ๐
FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams
๐ NTA! Don't let them guilt you into buying their house! ๐
[deleted] | [deleted]
Protect your investment! Consult a lawyer and secure your future.
sparklesparkle5 | sparklesparkle5
๐ซ NTA - DON'T DO IT! A cautionary tale of living with in-laws
Alorienn | Alorienn
NTA. Don't do it! No equity, no privacy, no return.
lallaw | lallaw
NTA. Don't do this. ๐ซ
Violet351 | Violet351
Deal breaker? NTA, let your SO know how you feel!
TXcacher | TXcacher
NTA. Unreasonable? Let's dive into this couple's dilemma! ๐
[deleted] | [deleted]
Parents expect couple to fund their retirement? NTA, stand firm! ๐ก
Infraggable_Krunk | Infraggable_Krunk
๐ซ Don't let others control your financial future. NTA!
capricorn40 | capricorn40
Follow your instincts! Talk to a banker for legal advice! ๐ช
Jaye1013 | Jaye1013
NTA. Did they really expect to live rent-free? ๐
pixp85 | pixp85
You're not responsible for their financial mistakes. NTA! โ๏ธ
Shiniest_Rock | Shiniest_Rock
No equity, living with in-laws? Lose-lose scenario. NTA! ๐
anathema_deviced | anathema_deviced
๐ซ Don't do it! Reconsider your future with this horrible idea. NTA.
thicklover | thicklover
๐ฉ Don't pay someone else's mortgage without legal protection! ๐ซ
molly_menace | molly_menace
Stand your ground! You have the right to live freely. ๐ช NTA
JTB_JTM | JTB_JTM
Hellll no! You're definitely not the a**hole here! ๐ค
NakedAndAfraidFan | NakedAndAfraidFan
Dump him! ๐ Find a cheaper and easier boyfriend! ๐
jpcher01 | jpcher01
NTA. Renting their housemates' home? Rethink the relationship. ๐ค
therapy_works | therapy_works
Moving in with in-laws? Expect to be maid and cook! ๐ฌ
LarryMcFlinigan | LarryMcFlinigan
NTA. Surround yourself with better people! ๐คฆโโ๏ธ
swedishchef2014 | swedishchef2014
NTA. Clear advice on buying a house with ambiguous partner.
Muncie4 | Muncie4
Don't get burned trying to save their home. NTA.
NotYourMommyDear | NotYourMommyDear
Don't do it! Start your own life in your own house ๐
luckydidi18 | luckydidi18
Partner not ready to be a grown up. NTA! ๐
abjectobsolescence | abjectobsolescence
Be honest with your partner about your dreams and concerns. ๐
BeachMom2007 | BeachMom2007
NTA, beware of paying for a home you don't own ๐จ
DeepTie6252 | DeepTie6252
NTA: Don't take over their mortgage. Stand up for yourself! ๐ช
Echo-Alexa | Echo-Alexa
Avoid this financial nightmare! NTA, stay out of it.
HRHArgyll | HRHArgyll
NTA: Don't take over the mortgage, it's a potential financial disaster ๐ฌ
SmileyFaceLols | SmileyFaceLols
NTA: Stand your ground! Don't let them ruin your dreams! ๐
KarenJoanneO | KarenJoanneO
Don't let entitled partners run you over, you deserve better! ๐ซ๐
AdeptHumor9203 | AdeptHumor9203
Don't agree to this. You're not the a**hole.
dragondude101 | dragondude101
You're not responsible for this. Mortgage = "Death-pact" in French ๐ฑ
Davion213 | Davion213
NTA - Couple's mortgage dilemma leads to underwater retirement home ๐
dragon34 | dragon34
Stand your ground and end the relationship. No compromise here. ๐
Superlurker218 | Superlurker218
NTA. New houses can still have costly repairs. Be cautious!
Jojowiththeyoyo | Jojowiththeyoyo
๐ค Suspicion arises: Is his parents' disapproval intentional?
Luxx00476 | Luxx00476
NTA, but investing in a home without marriage? Risky move! ๐
underscore197 | underscore197
Engaging compromise: Consider buying a house with an attached apartment. ๐ถ๐ป
aaaggghhhhhhhhh | aaaggghhhhhhhhh
๐ Splitting up over in-laws? That's a tough mortgage decision.
BreqsCousin | BreqsCousin
Don't take over the mortgage! Your life, your decisions! ๐ก
Sofiwyn | Sofiwyn
Financial abuse? This couple's dilemma is heartbreaking. ๐
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA - Don't take over their mortgage, it's not your responsibility ๐ก
Justinaroni | Justinaroni
Don't let anyone take away your choices and dreams ๐
6soulglitch | 6soulglitch
Snowbirds causing trouble? This commenter says NTA. ๐ด
possiblycrazy79 | possiblycrazy79
๐ซ Don't do it! His parents are so selfish!
Nomegusta111 | Nomegusta111
NTA. Run away! Don't get trapped in a controlling mortgage nightmare! ๐ฑ
calsey16 | calsey16
NTA - Buy your own home and let him handle his parents mortgage. ๐ช
Disastrous_Ad_8561 | Disastrous_Ad_8561
"NTA - Trust your gut. Your partner will never stop being the child."
wurschtradl | wurschtradl
Don't take over the mortgage! Trust me, it's a trap ๐ฌ
brotogeris1 | brotogeris1
Building your own home will create new memories and independence! ๐ก
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Partner's parents taking advantage. Make or break relationship. ๐ ๐
Practical-Big7550 | Practical-Big7550
Protect yourself from a lifetime of abuse. ๐๐ฐ
JaneAustenKicksAss | JaneAustenKicksAss
OP stands their ground against unfair mortgage situation. Stay strong! ๐
AuricAmphora | AuricAmphora
๐ You're NTA! Don't settle for a lifetime of dependence!
Matchtuff | Matchtuff
Couple's dilemma: Parents want vacation home in 'your' house ๐ฑ
Rural_Bedbug | Rural_Bedbug