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Imagine supporting your dad financially for years, only to find out he's been secretly using his own money to buy a house for your deadbeat brother! π± That's exactly what happened to this 32-year-old man and his siblings. They've been helping their dad with rent and bills since he stopped working due to health problems. But when they learned about the secret house purchase, the man decided enough was enough. Let's dive into this family drama and see what led to this explosive revelation! π₯
Helping Dad with Rent and Bills π°
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A Family Divided: Loyalty vs. Principles π
This family drama has left the siblings divided on whether or not to continue helping their dad financially. While the man and one of his brothers have chosen to stop supporting their dad after discovering the secret house purchase, the other siblings argue that they should still help him because he's their father and has done a lot for them. With emotions running high and family loyalty being tested, it's no wonder this situation has everyone questioning their decisions. Let's see what the internet thinks of this predicament... π€
NTA. Setting aside money for dad's future emergencies is smart π
noonecaresat805 | noonecaresat805
NTA comment and replies highlight enabling brother's behavior with dad's money π
f*ckUGalen | f*ckUGalen
NTA. Empathizing with a similar situation and supporting the decision. π
risssa391 | risssa391
Cutting off dad's financial aid to brother's house. NTA π
Maleficent_Ad_3958 | Maleficent_Ad_3958
When dad asks for money to buy a house for deadbeat brother π€―
Infamous-Wasabi-9007 | Infamous-Wasabi-9007
User defends OP's decision to not financially support dad and brother πͺ
NHFNCFRE | NHFNCFRE
NTA for refusing to financially support deadbeat brother π
dr-sparkle | dr-sparkle
NTA. Have a sit down with dad and family. π€
attorphous | attorphous
NTA, snap wallets shut and feel no guilt about cutting off
brotogeris1 | brotogeris1
Fraudulent dad uses son's money to enable deadbeat brother π
UnseemlyRoutine418 | UnseemlyRoutine418
Son refuses to financially support dad's secret house purchase π²
helendestroy | helendestroy
Dad plays favorites, but son won't finance brother's deadbeat lifestyle π
Alinaoana | Alinaoana
NTA. Enabling a deadbeat brother is not okay π²
Poop_Noodl3 | Poop_Noodl3
Sibling rivalry and tough love. NTA for not enabling.
Management_sucks | Management_sucks
NTA. Dad needs therapy to stop enabling deadbeat brother π
mtngrl60 | mtngrl60
Financial assistance could indirectly support deadbeat brother. NTA.
charliesmaine | charliesmaine
Cut him off. NTA. π°π ββοΈ
frauleinsteve | frauleinsteve
Deadbeat brother's house payment vs. dad's rent and bills π€
oregon_mom | oregon_mom
Brother got 400k, refusing to help is NTA π
00Lisa00 | 00Lisa00
Sibling rivalry and financial secrets lead to NTA verdict π
luckydidi18 | luckydidi18
Choosing not to financially support brother, NTA π ββοΈ
BeatingsGalore | BeatingsGalore
Suggesting a financial planner for Dad's money management. πΈ
hez_lea | hez_lea
Dad enables deadbeat brother, NTA for refusing to fund it π
KateBeckinsale_PM_Me | KateBeckinsale_PM_Me
Cutting off dad's financial support for deadbeat brother. NTA π
kumza87 | kumza87
Deadbeat brother's mortgage? NTA for not helping Dad π
BellaSantiago1975 | BellaSantiago1975
NTA suggests dad favors deadbeat son in secret house purchase π€
re_nonsequiturs | re_nonsequiturs
NTA stops financially supporting father and brother after secret house purchase π²
G8RTOAD | G8RTOAD
NTA for not helping dad financially with brother's house purchase π²
TillyMint54 | TillyMint54
Don't enable your dad and brother. Let them learn.
EarthBelcher | EarthBelcher
NTA, but dad needs to live within his means π
UsefulCauliflower3 | UsefulCauliflower3
Financially responsible NTA sets boundaries with deadbeat brother. πΈ
Scully152 | Scully152
Trust broken. No obligation to help financially. NTA π
ravenrabit | ravenrabit
Buying a house for a deadbeat brother? NTA says it all π²
_CassyBear3033 | _CassyBear3033
Man refuses to financially help dad after secret house purchase π²
FF22MM33 | FF22MM33
Sibling rivalry and tough love in family finances π
tryphyna | tryphyna
NTA stands their ground after dad's deception π
tiredandcranky89 | tiredandcranky89
Mother-in-law pays bills for deadbeat son, not sick daughter. π€·ββοΈ
flwvoh | flwvoh
NTA. Commenter suggests options for dad's financial situation. π
JuanMurphy | JuanMurphy
Tough love for dad's favoritism towards deadbeat brother π
sicrm | sicrm
Suggests alternative way to help dad without enabling brother. π
xxSKSxx_ | xxSKSxx_
Financial betrayal by dad justifies cutting off support. NTA π
jma7400 | jma7400
Choosing to help family doesn't mean enabling irresponsible behavior π
Unsolicitedadvice13 | Unsolicitedadvice13
NTA refuses to financially support brother after tax-free settlement π²
tangerine-trees- | tangerine-trees-
Dad buys house for deadbeat brother, NTA for refusing help.
sdlcur | sdlcur
Father's financial needs vs brother's entitlement. NTA wins.
repthe732 | repthe732
Son discovers dad bought house for brother, refuses to financially help. NTA.
votenanocratic | votenanocratic
Taking control of your finances and saying no to family πΈ
calsey16 | calsey16
Clear NTA comment questions family's financial support for dad and brother π
PheonixRising21 | PheonixRising21
NTA for refusing to financially support dad's secret house purchase π²
No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628
Confusion over settlement and mortgage, financial illiteracy all around π
MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu
Commenter shocked by family's wealth distribution π€―
rivertam2985 | rivertam2985
Brother's secret purchase uncovered, NTA for refusing financial help π
aprilmarina | aprilmarina
Don't support deadbeat brother by proxy. NTA for refusing.
TheDoNothings | TheDoNothings
Financial boundaries respected. Suggest discussing possible dementia or threats.
BDThrills | BDThrills
Commenter suggests finding a new family after dad's betrayal π‘
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NTA. Commenter suggests putting money aside for future emergencies. π
norskljon | norskljon
Enabling dad won't help. Find other ways to support him. π
Smooth_Fee | Smooth_Fee
Dad bought a secret house for deadbeat brother? NTA for refusing.
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
Commenter supports man's decision not to financially enable brother π
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Family financial drama: burden or responsibility? π€
wruso_pretty | wruso_pretty
Standing up for oneself is not being an a**hole π
deathsanta | deathsanta
π ββοΈ Refusing to pay for brother's mistakes, NTA wins family feud.
Sybellie | Sybellie
NTA receives support for refusing to financially help dad π
buggybuggy211 | buggybuggy211
Commenter supports man's decision not to financially enable brother π
thezatch2 | thezatch2
Dad buys deadbeat brother a house? NTA for refusing help.
Taleya | Taleya
Deadbeat brother's mortgage payment is not your responsibility. NTA π
chickenmeh | chickenmeh
Brother's house purchase leaves dad without financial support. NTA wins.
mesm93 | mesm93
NTA commenter agrees with the man's decision. π
lDitah | lDitah
Offering therapy as a solution to a pushover dad π
MistressLyda | MistressLyda
NTA. Your money, your business. Family can help dad instead π
Suelswalker | Suelswalker
Your money, your choice. NTA for not funding dad's decisions π
KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild
NTA discovers secret house purchase for deadbeat brother π²
bizianka | bizianka
Cutting off financial gifts to dad for brother's sake. NTA.
NanaLeonie | NanaLeonie
Set boundaries with family when offering financial help π
ClearCasket | ClearCasket
No need to worry, let dad move in with your brother π π¨βπ¦βπ¦ #NTA
20eyesinmyhead78 | 20eyesinmyhead78
Dad plays poor while funding the loser son. NTA's done.
whenitrainsitpours4 | whenitrainsitpours4
NTA. You have the right to be pissed π
Cursed-Life2168 | Cursed-Life2168